The Dominant Goddess Girlfriend Experience

Before delving into the heart of the “Isabella Experience,” first I’d like to be clear that anyone who chooses to participate in a femdom trance relationship with me has the option to leave at any time. I say this because I offer what few people do, and I realize the type of people I wish to attract in my life are those who choose to stay and adapt to my desire to dominate through trancelike induction (and sometimes without).

What I do not offer:

Naked videos of myself. Webcam sessions. One-dollar porn. Faceless sex. False fantasy. Custom pics. If you are looking for porn to cum fast, I recommend you save your money and join a video porn site with naked actors and actresses who do the whole “in out” fucking process. Frankly, most of the porn on the internet is run of the mill, typical, and predictable. Clothes come off. People fuck. Game over. Sometimes there is magic, but often there is not.

What I offer:

I find that my strength is offering a “Dominant Goddess Girlfriend Experience.” Real name. Real photos. Blog videos. Authentic friendship. $25-$35 MP3s carefully hand-written and recorded by me. Evolving, surprising quality state-of-the-art audio mp3s. If you think you would enjoy listening a woman talking to you (on the phone or via recorded sessions which are arguably sexier) slowly and methodically as an alternative to generic video porn, then you will love “The Isabella Experience.”

*shrug* I find audio recordings hold a more consciously quiet space for the imagination to create lifelike intimate interactions. As a bookworm, I find heart in spoken words. I offer a trance relationship bottled within an mp3 product; slow detailed fantasies, hypnotic inductions, orgasms, no orgasms, stories… an experience designed for mental pleasure. I like to take my time. Quickies are fun, and others do them better. “The Isabella Experience” is a time-intensive (30-60 minutes usually) sexy trance led by me, your Dominant Goddess Girlfriend. When I create sessions, I imagine my known and future lovers and fans. I cater to the submissive crowd with an intuitive-friendly Isabella-style of playful, sweet, understanding, dark, light, kinky, sensual domination. It is not for everyone; it is for those type of people I wish to attract into my life.

Why domination?

Why the fuck not? *cracks her whip* Despite the fact breasts leave me weak and helpless, there are men and women who completely freak out when a woman “tries” to dominate them. I am not in the business of dominating people who do not want to be dominated. That is a violation of my personal and professional ethics. I do not “force” and certainly do not push my agenda to deaf ears. I am in the business of dominating and fucking with the dark shadow of the mind within light breathly kisses with those who delight in me.

Consensual domination is the only type of domination I use. If you say “no” or “mercy” I will discontinue. Don’t be a pussy though. Understand that I am here to stretch the way boundaries exist. I will push, tempt, tease, and lovingly torture you in the way we both desire. You will be safe and sound in exquisite agony. I play in the dark side which is often muddled with misconceptions. If you have questions about general femdom hypnosis, I invite you to check out Inraptured.com which I run with my submissive husband. We’re poly, by the way.

Don’t forget to breathe, darling.

My recordings are not for everyone. What I offer is an experience different than generic wam bam video porn. There is too much pressure to try to please everyone. It’s impossible. Those who find my sensual strengths attractive are the ones I choose to attract. That, my friends, is the magnet pull of attraction. That is how erotic magnetism starts at its core.

I am available in the following ways:

I am always available for worship via email.  I am available for friendship, support, kindness, ideas, and authentic individual expressions of creativity. I love it when people seek my approval for ideas. I love to hear jokes and be amused. If you wish to carry a dialogue with me, look for me on Facebook under Isabella Valentine or email address isabella@isabellavalentine.com – I friend people with photos first.

I am available for emotional heart surgery, judgmental free listening, and fresh bisexual polyamorous Goddess perspectives on life, love, and relationships. I don’t claim to be qualified to give advice on any particular thing, but if you ask me for guidance in an area in your life (with a little background info), I will nibble slowly and see what comes out.

Grounds for unfriending:

When I go on Facebook, I never want to feel pressured to write anyone back. I use FB for having fun and connecting with my friends, fans, and family. Conversations on FB should be strictly personal. I won’t give recommendations for which recordings should be purchased (or deep involved questions about hypnosis) which could be handled when I’m “on the clock.” So if you have questions that warrant a timely response in an area you’d like assistance, please write my professional email at isabella@isabellavalentine.com. In the unlikely event you’re a pedophile or a murderous kidnapper, I will unfriend you and report those illegal activities to the police in your city. I’m serious. I know it’s rare someone would open up about these things, but I’ve been around the block in this business. If your posts make me squeamish to the point that I do not want to return to Facebook, I will unfriend you. LOL I take friendship waaaaayyyy too seriously, I know! But it’s cause I only want cool authentic friends.

I am unavailable for unsolicited criticism and general judgment. Some people like negative or constructive feedback and find it useful and immensely valuable in their lives. I don’t. I find it to be an unfriendly act that tells me there is a lack of compassion and mutual desire to see each other happy. *crosses her legs* Authentic friendship is one of my core values. I don’t seek to be perfect. I seek autonomy (one who gives oneself their own law). Within these contexts, autonomy refers to the capacity of a rational individual to make an informed, un-coerced decision. In moral and political philosophy, autonomy is often used as the basis for determining moral responsibility for one’s actions.

So back to domination. How is that a good thing?

Domination is different than slavery because the door to arrive/leave is unlocked. I’m all about full disclosure. Femdom erotic hypnosis or erotic magnetism is, in my opinion, not forced or unequally coercive because YOU as an individual are making the uncoerced decision to enter into a relationship within my recording sessions. Submission within a D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationship is a willingness to be led followed by non-passive action. In other words, you could “pretend” to be submissive, but that doesn’t work well longterm with me. Courageously step into subspace and submit to trance. *sways her hypnotic pendant*

Erotic magnetism involves pulling your personality into my world, and keeping you here: relaxed, aroused, and entertained.

Role Adaptation

Not all of my recordings involve domination, yet I assure you female domination is a significant life passion of mine. From my experience, domination can produce a knee-jerk reaction unless it’s mutually sought and offered. After all, domination isn’t negotiation. Or is it? Dominance is a deviant dance.

What if I want to reject Your domination?

The door is open if you choose to leave. Adapt and stay. Alternatively, I have select sessions available that indicate within the description whether it includes domination. I don’t want to waste your time, and I certainly don’t want you wasting mine. There is nothing in the world I do better than erotic hypnosis. I’m a seasoned professional with exquisite taste for quality and excellence. In the end, I seek to make your experience completely satisfying within the realms of me being sensually dominant and guiding your trance.

If you do not seek domination on my website/store, yet wish to maintain a friendship with me, please friend me on Facebook. I have many platonic friends who don’t listen to hypnosis and certainly don’t want to be dominated. I won’t flirt on you on YOUR wall unless given YOUR permission — I do respect your privacy. I flirt with people who love to be dominated. Mrs. Claus is welcome to kiss my ass.

How do you prefer to be addressed?

I love being called Goddess, but you don’t have to call me that. Isabella is fine. My husband calls me Goddess every day, and I love to hear it as often as possible.

Sensual Tantra does not typically involve domination yet it recognizes the female superior. I respond to Goddess, Mistress, Madam, and Isabella. Being called Goddess is very rewarding. You do not have to call me Goddess to recognize that I see myself as a Goddess.

My spiritual beliefs recognizing myself as a Goddess and other women as Goddesses. I recognize men as Gods. I do not see myself inherantly superior to any gender or person. At my core, equality makes the world a better more beautiful place. In the bedroom, I’m a top. My desires. My needs. If you want a handjob or blowjob, I feel for ya. The dream I see for us is one where you close your eyes and slip into a trance of relaxing sexual bliss upon My Direction. If I bring up a fetish that typically isn’t arousing for you and your instinct is to jerk away, then I encourage deep reflection prior to entering a Goddess/slave relationship. I may also be approached into a Trancer/Trancer relationship free of D/s.

In recordings, I flexibly serve my customers within the walls of what I find interesting. I like people better when it’s all about me — and more importantly, about the trance. I love people deeply, empathetically, lovingly, and understandingly. And I’m happy to announce I’ve earned a lazy fetish. Enablers welcome.

Pleasurable Response

My pleasure derives from hearing people respond to the way I speak when I am my Dominant role. Moan as I turn you on. *slut* Cause that turns ME on. It is about ME after all. Get it? Good.

With women, I have been known to be a very good switch. When I am with a woman romantically, my heart is touched by her sparkling magic. However with men, I reserve my switchy behavior for those who I’ve spent years warming with until I am ready to explore those submissive tendencies.

Do You have sex with people who have bought your recordings?

I’ve been known to have sex with my STD-free boyfriends and girlfriends, but I don’t get naked for money. Sorry, I am not a prostitute or a professional escort (and bless them for doing what they do well). I’m a type of sacred slut 2.0

Music, Words, Poetry

Love my music choices and allow them to deepen your trance.

Love my word choices and allow them to softly touch your sensitive parts.

Love my poetic endeavors and allow them to be a rare form of erotica.

Love my voice and crave every word

Love my body and find my beautiful plus size body worthy of lust

Love my mind and surrender to where I will take us

Love my lifestyle which allows me to reach you in this way

Love my honor to hold a space for your mind to worship me

Love my way of receiving your worship and your gifts

Love my longing to take you deeper

Love my eyes that magnetize every fiber in your being

Love your willingness to open and be vulnerable to me

Love your courage to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty

Love your bravery to withstand intense erotic pleasure when you hear my recordings

Love your strength to imagine a large curvy breasted woman on top of your body

Love your humility as you bend on your knees and look up into my hazel eyes

Love your submission as you say, “Yes Goddess,” and “Yes Mistress”

Love your way of listening to every nuance of my sweet, seductive voice

Love your pleasure that pulls from within when you “let go”

Love your generosity to spoil me with tributes, gifts, letters, acts of kindness, and surprises

Love your girlfriend, Isabella

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