Isabella Valentine

You exist and I exist in this hypnotic world, and we have now officially met. That means we’re connected. Whose existence do you think brought you here? Yours or mine… Known or unknown? The fact that you’re here reading this, for me, is validation that erotic hypnosis brings people together! Philosophy plays an integral role in my thinking process, so “who I am” inevitably varies moment to moment. I believe we are Connected and we are One.

I’d like to share with you a very personal journey I had in the winter of 2007. While meditating in my room at a beachfront resort in Kona, I had a POWERFUL and very REAL own spiritual awakening. I learned to recognize Source with mindful awareness. I didn’t believe in a higher power at the time, so I asked, “I don’t know if anyone can hear me, but if anyone is there, I want to hear! If you exist, please show yourself. I want to know. Please.” I became still and listened. Suddenly sprinklers outside turned on as they watered the grass by the sand. This didn’t satisfy my critical mind. I repeated aloud, “I need to know if that is you. Please communicate louder and more clearly.” Suddenly, the sprinklers got LOUDER and LOUDER. It was at that moment I felt surrounded by love and relaxation in a wave of euphoria. I surrendered into an abyss of trust and love. Simply writing this gives me chills. I met Spirit. Call it heightened awareness, if you will. Perhaps it could be considered a coincidence. Luck, maybe. With complete trust, I felt a pull inside my body that calmed me from head to toe. Some Hawaiian locals suggested the spiritual awakening occurred because Kona is sacred land. Maybe the connection I felt with the earth was magnified by the knowledge that I was on an island with a volcano; seismic tremors are a constant.

Regardless of how or what happened, it is clear that something impressed me to build a deep reverence with the earth and sea, a newfound respect of being a speck in the universe, an awareness of being braided together with Source.

My highest form of fulfillment comes from the satisfaction I get offering people the tools for kink-positive sexual release through means of mind+body+spirit relaxation. Reflecting back over my life, I can honestly say that sex has been a pulsing anchor. For me, everything is sex. The tree outside my window is sex. The paint on the wall is sex. The wrinkles on the back of a pair of jeans on a sexy girl… is sex. It is for this reason that I self-identify as a living sex Goddess. Some Hindu traditions recognize beings as Gods and Goddesses, and sometimes both; I see the Divine in everyone, and enjoy playing with language that is both intensely erotic, divinely sensual, and daringly poetic.

Erotic hypnosis comes as naturally to me as breathing or eating. The wonderful thing about “sex” is that it is not limited to conventional heterosexual intercourse. What I mean by sex is willful surrender to pleasure. It is ubiquitous Tantric Energy.

I am who I say I am. Presenting myself honestly sets the foundation for a lasting, elastic relationship. My name is Isabella Suzanne Valentine, nice to meet you.

In the summer of 06, one of my online recordings (“Love Spell”) helped me snag the man of my dreams. You could say it was love at first hearing. Years later, Michael (or Maurice) and I got married with a private ceremony wearing pajamas and our vows ended with “You may now hypnotize your husband.” And in August of 2009, we gave birth to a healthy baby boy. You may know him online (he often answers tech questions and works on web design and the development of this site) as being the creator of Inraptured. We have an open relationship with clear communication which allows room for multiple lovers.

A few other things about me. I’m a Halloween baby (born October 31, 1980 at 8:45 pm) so that makes me a Scorpio. It’s been suggested that Scorpios are intense, profound, sexual, passionate, powerful, and loyal beings. I was literally born on the day of the dead, All-Hallows-Eve. I’ve spent my whole life embracing dress-up, costuming, characterization, superheroes, and magic (trick-treat).

Despite my general criticism of astrology, I choose to embrace Scorpio’s water element. Those associated with water signs are often described as: intuitive, emotional, imaginative, nurturing, secretive, dreamy; characteristics that I’d say accurately describe me.

I believe that every human being is a combination of male and female, and therefore we have the ability to “transcend and include” gender in our lifestyles. If men are supposed to be strong and women are supposed to be graceful, why not tap into both? Isn’t it awesome how a man can be graceful, quiet, and obedient while a woman can be strong, self-assured, and assertive? Every gender has strengths which we can channel into our bodies.

My Italian-English-Spanish ancestory traces through a verifiable lineage that spans over two thousand years including many generations of royal blood. My father spent years researching our family tree which is rooted in a long line of nobility. Throughout our dynasty, my grandfathers, cousins, and their spouses were great kings and queens. I’m standing on the shoulders of giants, and I value honor and loyalty by living purposely with my daily choices around my friends, family (chosen or otherwise), and lovers.

I believe sexuality moves fluidly; a spectrum loop with random peaks and waves.

I follow the RACK motto:

R. [Risk] – All individuals participating in erotic play are aware of risk (either through disclaimer or description.] Individuals makes choices.
A. [Aware] – Individuals may choose to discontinue participation at any time.
C. [Consensual] – Participants have free will; including consent to participate or not participate. This may include “casually observing” new hypnosis sessions before “being hypnotized” by it.
K. [Kink] – All individuals participating in erotic play agree to use “suspension of disbelief” to fuel fantasy and vivid imagination.

I doubt anyone is really 100% straight. My opinion is that in order for a man (or lady for that matter) to self-identify as straight, he or she would have to deeply consider engaging in sexual relations with a same-sex partner in order to reject such experience. By definition alone, in order to deeply consider having sexual relations with the same sex, the individual must tap into parts of himself or herself which details the spectrum of love for it; at the very least, he or she may reluctantly enjoy it to scale the desirability. If a person contemplates the possibilities of sexual relations with a same-sex partner (whether real, imaginary, or partial – such as “genital only”) with the intent of opening themselves to pleasure, then it’s difficult to argue the logic behind calling oneself 100% straight. If you want to discuss this further, feel free to join us at Trancers the first Friday of every month.

Suppose no one is really completely gay either, for similar reasons. Now we see that people can swing all the way to 99.9999% one way to the other, from one end of the fluid sexuality spectrum far to the other side. I would find it quite perplexing to think of sexual preference as anything other than impermanent. Science suggests that everything is moving. Literally, everything. So why not sexual preference? And since it moves, it also shifts. These sexual spectrum shifts expand the scope of our horny thoughts and unexpected desires.

I’m bisexual and poly – mostly into bisexual smart, large breasted women, and occasionally attracted to submissive, bisexual well-endowed men.

So, you may ask, “Why erotic hypnosis?” And that, my friends, is The Million Dollar question. To me, it is the highest form of surrender; consequently, it’s the ultimate form of trust. It goes both ways for me, both as a hypnotist and a subject. I must admit I have a love affair with erotic hypnosis. It soothes me when I’m down. Turns me on when I’m horny. When I am hypnotized by a tender voice speaking meditative, hypnotic words, I experience this:

Stiffness becomes melty. There is a spinning. A sequence of ripples, waves, dives, and spins. A looping anchor. Or two. Or three. Or deeper. A diving down or floating up. There is getting lost in words. There are no words. Too many words overflowing so beautifully.

The correlation between sex and erotic hypnosis, for me, is trust and surrender. Trust is required to be hypnotized; surrender is harnessed into fulfillment on the deepest, most awesome level of sexual love, lust, passion, and intimacy.

What I love the most about being hypnotized, is surrender. I love closing my eyes during hypnosis, gliding beside a trusting voice. There is basking in exploration. There is bathing in sexual vocal touch. There is the option to not think at all, or to think of what’s being offered, detouring the challenge of over-analyzation. Words become inadequate on their way to describing the full experience of erotic hypnosis and its secret mystery. During erotic hypnosis, sometimes colors appear more vibrant. For most of us, a most fulfilling hypnotic experience involves an unqualifiable void that is empty and blank, floaty and nothing, melty and zero. It is there, within that quiet dreamless void, I feel touched, desired, unconditionally accepted, sexually satisfied…. calm. It’s no wonder deep relaxation can easily lead to stronger, hotter orgasms; because I’m lending the reaction of my body to my inner voice. Think about that one for a while

I’m often at my most happy when I’m listening to soft, relaxing music. It warms the body, calms the mind. Music is readily-accessible for guests in every room of the house. Music can so easily set *just* the right mood.

Should you decide to browse my photo gallery, you may notice how drastically different I look from one photo to the next. Part of this is because of my extensive wig collection. The other part of this is because my weight fluctuates, and I recently gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. American culture tends to want women in entertaining positions to be physically fit and strikingly beautiful. It is a goal, and it will take time. I may not have been Prom Queen, but I was mentioned in my high school yearbook more than any other student. Physical beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I see Us as Beautiful Sexy Hotness!

I have 2-3 years of college under my belt (studied psychology, sexology, and sociology) from San Diego City College. I’m currently a student at Ivy Tech Community College taking courses in Public Speaking/Communication, Persuasion/Argument, American History, and Algebra 2. My hope in 2 years is to transfer to Indiana University to attend pre-med school with a major in Neurology to find a cure to reverse the symptoms of permanent brain damage in drowning victims (or for those who experienced severe lack of oxygen to the brain).

I am happy to inform you I am not a slave to the regulations of certifications or degrees. I’ve ripped up the 12 certifications I earned while studying hypnosis, NLP, and Time Line Therapy from American Pacific University, which is now an accredited institution. While attending classes in Kona, Hawaii, I befriended several students who have greatly impacted my life. Ironically, the president of the organization doesn’t want to be my friend – he thinks I value friendship more than he does. Yes, I DO value friendship MUCH more than I do holding an achievement.

Additionally, and I say this with a tongue planted firmly in cheek, I’ve got two pieces of paper that call me a doctor – PhD’s (Hypnotherapy and Spiritual Holistic Health) but they don’t count cause anyone can buy them online without writing a dissertation or with any required educational background – but I do have the life experience in seducing and calming the mind. As a former professional phone sex operator (and I am still very very good, and reserve the right to continue that if I want), I’ve seduced several thousands of people over the phone one by one. I actually ENJOY it. It’s everything your parents tries to protect you from

One little thing most may not know about me is that I’m an ordained minister which means I can legally marry people in any state that allows marriage by clergy. I support gay marriage, or at the very least, equal rights and civil unions. I’m an advocate for many human and animal rights groups. I watch/read national and international news every day (and local news from time to time).

I reserve the right to have sex with any adult I want who mutually wants me. My recordings are primarily intended for polyamorous lovers – meaning MANY LOVES. I am not a teacher, a spiritual guide, or in a position to offer undue influence. I am just a creative poet who likes dirty talk. Surrender to self-pleasure with me.

I do hope you and I will have a relationship together where my recordings will inspire, arouse, and enchant you. Thank you for reading and enjoy the site!

Love
Isabella
xoxoox