I don't just pretend to be a dominatrix on the telephone. I live the lifestyle everyday in the way I live and act. Now granted, I don't always walk around in leather or latex, but I certainly live like a Goddess in every way and enjoy people being submissive to me. Whether it's going to the spa and getting a manicure and pedicure or having my submissive boyfriend serve me by kissing my feet... I always get pampered! After all... that's the way it should be, right? *giggles*
I'm not a mean person, nor I do I think being dominant requires having a bitchy personality. If you want to talk to a demanding bitch, then by all means call someone else. Some people have called me a "sensual domme" or a "light-hearted domme" or sometimes even a "giggly domme" because I tend to have FUN on my calls while dominating people. However don't piss me off. I'm not very good at dealing with confrontation from people who are smart asses or people who assume I am simply a phone prostitute, so I usually just hang up and ban people like that. I'm a real person on the end of the phone and although I like to have fun with BDSM play, I absolutely refuse to be treated anything less than a true Goddess.
I have one younger sister, one older handicapped brother, a black cat named "John Holmes the Porn Cat" who I consider my best friend in all the world and he sleeps with me on all my lonely nights. Poor little cat runs out of the room when I start orgasming on the phone though, I don't get it. He also gets really excited and runs in circles over sex toys when I dangle them above his head!
I live in downtown San Diego about ten minutes away from the beach, but to tell you the truth - I hardly ever see the ocean. I'm more of a mountains-type of girl than a beach girl. I love hanging out in the sand, but I get bored too easily. But out in the mountains, I feel much more free and open. Maybe that's cause I grew up climbing mountains with my dad who happened to be a mountain climber long before he injured his back.
My current goal is to get a degree, so education is a very big part of my life right now. I am a full-time college student and often have my head in the books or biting my pens at the library. Right now I'm in my third semester and taking Spanish 101, Spanish Lab, English 101, and Math 95. I am extremely jealous of other operators who can speak fluent Spanish. The language is... romantica! I love it!! So I'm in school to learn Spanish... so if you know the language, I'll probably orgasm just listening to you! Also I'm taking English 101 which is a required course, but I'm pretty good in English I think - so I should be ok. Math 95 is a pain in the ass. Math is my weakest subject and struggle very much with even the simplest algebraic concepts. I've already finished Psychology 101 (Intro to Psychology), Psychology 137 (Human Sexual Behavior), and Psychology 161 (Introduction to Counseling), and Sociology 101. So at least I've got some classes already under my belt!
Phone sex, to me, is a wonderful freedom to share good in the world. I see it as a way to refresh, rejuvenate, and relieve someone. What better way to experience physical pleasure that with other people you care about? I love what I do and would love to get to know you!